FAQ

These are my most frequently asked questions, so to save time I thought I’d start collating it into one place.

Q: Is this your full time job?
A: I have been involved in kink for 20 years and started professionally around 5 years ago, it was part time at first and then grew and grew. I continue to have other projects outside of BDSM but professional domination is now my main source of income and I've never been happier.

Q: Are you selective about who you take bookings with?
A: Yes. I’m very picky. If we just don’t match up well then it won’t be fun for anyone. I want the people I play with to get as much out of it as possible, this works best if I’m also enjoying myself! Plus there’s a safety element, I’m extra careful of who I meet in person.

Q: What’s the weirdest thing you’ve ever been asked to do?
A: ‘Weird’ is all relative, isn’t it! I don’t find any kinks or fetishes to be weird. Some of them may not be to my tastes but that doesn’t make them weird. The things I’ve found most surprising would be the requests that are far from being Safe, Sane, or Consensual. I turn those down.

Q: Are you discreet?
A: Yes. For a start, I have no interest in outing anyone, why bother? Everything we do can be completely anonymous, I do not have to know any of your personal information and you do not need mine.

Q: Can you provide references?
A: Yes, just ask.

Q: Do you have sex with slaves/subs
A: No. I  may touch you sexually, but you do not touch me sexually. I do clothed facesitting, watersports, and handjobs at my descretion. Those are my boundaries and if a sub tries to push them, I won't be seeing them again.

Q: What is your view on drugs and alcohol?
A: I do not use drugs or alcohol on the day of play. I do not play with intoxicated people for everyone’s safety.

Q: Do you take outfit requests?
​​​​​​​A: I will take requests into consideration but it's up to my discretion what I choose to wear for a session.